At the One Year Mark
Alas, all has gone wrong. Why didn't I see the signs? This will obviously be too long for anybody to read... it's just a dump of things. After my previous post in June, things started to unravel a bit. It started with some fighting as I guess it always does and by the time the holidays rolled around it spiraled out of control. Like Humpty Dumpty, I fear that all the king's horses and all the king's men will not be able to put this together again. The first sign of weakness was perhaps when I asked Ali to try to keep her van clean. Apparently, that triggered her as she thought I was being too controlling. She sees her van as her sanctuary of sorts. 5/24/2024 I also was VERY impressed with how you cleaned out your van. It showed me that you can do it. I just want to know that on balance, you will continue to do it more times than not, especially when you get to the point of having good places to put your stuff so that you don't feel li...